“Let’s say there were a 100 people and 98 of them were allowing, supportive of you and 2 weren’t, you know that the greatest benefit that you received was from the 2 who weren’t…Because they gave you an opportunity to find that unconditional place…In other words, people who support you don’t help you find unconditional love. It’s the people who don’t support you that help you find it. Isn’t that interesting?
People who agree with you… they’re not helpin’. They’re just reflecting your balance, but they’re not helping, there not helping. So… what’s coming back to you is a reflection of how you’re doing… so, 98% coming back to you that way and 2% coming back to you the other way is a pretty good indication of what you’ve got going on vibrationally, isn’t it?
And, do you think your goal should be a 100%? We don’t…We think you should take it as it comes and enjoy the improvement and feel as good as you can feel. So, let’s say… 50% of them allowing, 50% of them freaking out… would that matter? Do you have to focus at the freaker-outers?
You get to choose. And so, do you want to exercise any control over what anybody thinks about anything? You haven’t got any control like that. Or, do you just wanna focus… wanna control the direction of your own thought. So, even if it was 98% the other way, it would be fine. Because what they think of you isn’t any of your business…Unless you make it your business.
You know when you’ll really be where you wanna be? When you don’t need to explain to anybody what’s going on...In other words, there’s a sort of seeking of taking everyone’s temperature. “So, I’ve decided THIS… TA DA!” “Takin’ a poll. Takin’ a poll. Takin’ a poll. Takin a poll. Takin a poll. Results of the poll. The results of the poll are good.” You know you’re really there when you say, “TA DA! Take me or leave me.” No poll. “I’m not takin’ any poll. I’m not taking any of your temperatures, only my own.
Abraham Hicks, 9/8 2014