Don’t take things so seriously!

“You are so going to enjoy that feeling of laughter that is your first impulse when you re- emerge into the non- physical and you realize how idiotically seriously you’ve been taking all this stuff. In that final recognition of the Wellbeing of you and the worthiness of you and the value of you. IOW, there will be a laughing fest the likes of which you’ve not yet experienced in this physical form.”
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It is possible!

Anything you desire has already been created for you! You get to choose everything you want to be, do and have and in the second you want something – it has been created for you! It is forever held for you vibrationally in your escrow, forever improving and matching your newest preferences. It waits for you to align with the frequency of it, and when you do you allow it to manifest for you! It is all you! You don’t have to figure out the “how” or the “when” it will all be taken care of beautifully by the power that creates worlds, who you really are. All you have to do is align, get happy. That is it.

It is possible. If you want it, it is possible – no matter how it may temporarily look which is old news anyway. It is possible. If you can desire it, you can have it, be it do it. It is all about alignment or not with the frequency of your desires. And the vibration of alignment always feels good! So when you feel good, when you feel Joy, Passion, love, appreciation, excitement, eagerness – any good feeling emotions- know that you are aligned! And if you care more about how you feel, more about tending to your vibration first and foremost, more about feeling good on a consistent basis – what you desire must come to you. It is law. Law of attraction. You always get exactly what you are a vibrational match to, no exceptions. It is so fair, no one does anything to you ever. Ever. No exceptions. It is all your own doing because no one else can vibrate for you. It is your choice and you can allow or resist, and if the life you are living is joyful, satisfying, exciting, loving, fun and you get what makes you feel even better and better – you are aligned on a consistent basis. You are allowing. That is your natural state of being. Anything other than that is nothing but you resisting what you desire – and you can tell by the way you feel when you do that.

It is never too late though, you could have been resistant for 20,30,40,50 years and finally decide to care about how you feel, care about feeling good and become allowing – and everything you desire will start manifesting in your experience.

It is all you. And it is possible. If you want it, it has already been created for you. It is waiting for you to align.

Take pleasure in thinking about what really is

What you see around you right now, what your body’s condition is right now, what is in your bank account right now etc, all of that which you all call “reality” is really only old news! Because in the moment you look at anything a desire for what you want is born within you. You don’t even think about it because the asking for improvements and what you desire now as a result of this experience happens automatically. And, in the moment you ask for what you desire – it is created for you. It is already created for you and it is held in your escrow, forever improving and improving to match your new desires. It is awesome really!

So, if it is that simple – and it is – that as you ask for what you desire it is created, why is it that it doesn’t show itself to you right then and there? What is “hindering” you from getting everything you desire right now? Only one thing, YOU. No other person and no other thing in the world is keeping you from getting everything you desire but you. Why is that? Because you were trained to “face the facts” to “face reality” that there is “no gain without pain” and to “tell it like it is” etc. And all those things that people taught you are false premises. If you look at what is, face the facts look at reality, talk about what is, discuss the issues, worry about them etc – you get more of that.

So, what to do then? You have to turn your attention towards what really is! Out of this “reality” new preferences and new desires for improvements has been born and created and Yes they are all created, even better than you can ever imagine, and it is all here for you, all you have to do is align. You have got to find a way to feel good, even if you are standing in a place where you don’t want to be. Use your mind! Focus on the best parts of where you are, appreciate that, and take pleasure in thinking about all the wonderful thing you have already created for yourself as a result of this “reality”. Take pleasure in that! It is easy! Because when you know what you don’t want, you know what you do want and what you do want is what is created for you.

You don’t have to do anything, there is no effort in getting everything you desire, just align! Ok, so the only effort is to let go of things and thoughts that don’t feel good and focus on things and think thoughts that do feel good! When you feel good, you are aligned! When you are aligned you are allowing everything you desire to come to you. Take pleasure in thinking about all the wonderful things that are in your escrow waiting for you to align! It is there for you and it will wait for you until you align. And you get to choose. You get to choose what you desire and if you allow it to come to you. It is all up to you, you are in charge. No one else and nothing else vibrates and attracts to you, or allows or resists for you – only you. Only you.

How to love yourself, 3 steps

One of the most important things is that we feel good about ourselves. When we feel good about ourselves we are confident, we are radiating beauty and love and we attract more beauty and more love to us.

When you first love you, you will be an amazing loving lover to your mate, you will have more fun, enjoy more, feel at ease more and you won’t need to lackfully compare yourself to others. When you love yourself you will be healthy, vital and eager. When you love yourself and see your positive aspects, you will get more and more positive aspects about you to appreciate. You will also see more and more things in others and things that you appreciate.

A first step to become more loving to yourself can be to treat yourself as you would someone who you really really love and adore. Really, become your own adoring lover. Pamper yourself, sooth yourself, encourage yourself, appreciate yourself, praise yourself, treat yourself really really good!

A second step can be to buy a beautiful notebook and in it, everyday, write lists of things you like about yourself. The more you do it, the more wonderful things about you will be revealed to you. It is about focus. You can even write “I am looking forward to finding some positive aspects with me” or “I would like to see some positive aspects with me” if you find it hard. The universe will assist you once you line up with those intentions and positive aspects about you will be visible to you.

A third step could be to pay attention to your emotions and when you feel off a little bit, stop and notice what thoughts you are thinking. Whenever you feel negative emotion you are thinking bogus thoughts about you, others or what is happening. When thoughts make you feel bad, know that they really are bogus because source, the energy that creates worlds, who you really are only thinks what feels good, only gives attention to what feels good. So when you feel bad you are off your track, looking in the wrong direction. You cannot think a thought in opposition to what source thinks and ever feel good. And when you feel good, your thoughts are in alignment with what source thinks.

It is really wonderful because when you feel bad about you in anyway – you vibrationally ask for an improvement and as you ask, it is given instantly. Anything you desire and anything you realize you would prefer is possible, because when you ask it is given. Every single time, no exceptions. Who you really are, source, becomes it, is it, has it instantly so who you really are took the expansion. If you continue to feel bad, you are looking in the wrong direction. You cannot look at what you do not want, feel bad about it and ever get what you desire. You have to look at where you are going, and what you do like already – you have to be in an allowing state in order to be able to receive what you have asked for, which already is created for you.

So, work on feeling good about you, nothing is more important than feeling good. Source feels good all the time, source knows the value of appreciating and looking in the direction of where you are going.

You get constant feedback on how you are vibrating

How empowering it feels to discover that the only thing that matters is how you feel – and when you really get that you understand it all!

Just watch people around you, there is evidence of law of attraction everywhere around you! How in alignment or how misaligned you are in your thinking is constantly indicated to you by your guidance system – your emotions. And how you think and feel always matches what you get.

I went to a dinner last night and two of the people who sat at our table were very ill, they had both been injured and when people asked them how they were doing they responded only with negative complaining words. Regurgitating how awful they had had it for so many years, how they couldn’t do this and this and this. They were so accustomed to telling it like it is, justifying etc.

In my mind I wanted them for just a while to just enjoy the delicious food, the cozy atmosphere, the fun social people around the table, how nicely dressed we all were, the beautiful Christmas music, the pleasant waiters, or any of the many things I enjoyed. Just a while of enjoying that would release a little resistance for a little while. And maybe they could try moving up the emotional scale slightly, just slightly and they would reslease a little resistance. 

I know that you do not teach with words, teaching happens by life experience and the only thing one can do is to live as an example of thriving, of enjoying, of basking, of happy, of loving etc. So I enjoyed my evening immensely. Of course I took notice of their negativity, and I know I have negativity active within me otherwise I would not have rendezvoused with them at our table, or I would not even have noticed their negativity.

Everything that comes to you comes in response to your vibration – so everyone and everything around you really are your post-manifestational indicators of how you have been vibrating. Your emotions are your pre-manifestational indicators. So, you really can tell in every moment how you are vibrating and you can improve your vibration anytime anyplace if you only want to.

Everything that happens to you comes in response to your vibration

It is always just, it is always fair. You always get what you expect. Law of attraction responds equally to everyone – always – no exceptions. Attention to brings more of. You always get exactly what you are a vibrational match to, always, no exceptions. No one else can ever do anything to you, it is always you who attract it to you. It is all about vibration.

Whether you are a small amoeba in the ocean, a newborn baby, a teenager, a giraffe or an old man - when you ask,  it is given. You always get exactly what you are offering vibrationally. That is wonderful because you can choose how you want to vibrate, and therefor you can choose what comes to you. And you can tell how you are vibrating by how you feel. When you feel good – you attract more things, people and experiences that will feel really good too.

Before you came into this world you were eager about becoming physical, you were eager about your life experiencec and it was all for the fun of it. You were aware of the contrast and buffee of life that would be there for you, and you were eager about sifting through this smörgåsbord of variety of wanted and unwanted things. You knew that in your sifting through the variety you would come to your own, personal, conclusions about what you preferred. You were not afraid of the contrast, because you were aware of the enormous benefit that the contrast would bring – because from contrast comes a desire for what is wanted, and a desire for what is wanted is what keeps this universe expanding. When you ask – it is given. We constantly expand thanks to the variety, the contrast.

So, everything that your life has caused you to desire has been given to you – and continues to become more and more and better as you constantly come to new conclusions of what you want. Now it depends upon you whether you allow it to come to you or not. But it is always just, it is always fair because law of attraction brings you an exact match to what you are offereng vibrationally. Action really doesn´t matter, vibration is what really matters. And what you choose to think, focus on, give your attention to, speak of, look at etc is what trains your vibration. And you can tell by the way you feel how you are vibrating.

There is no risk, there is no danger. The only question is: when will you align with what you have asked for? Will it be today, this week, 10 years from now, this life time? It is all up to you, no one else. You decide. The power to align is within you and you can do it now. Unless you choose to regurgitate “what is”, complaining about not having it, speaking of the lack of it, feeling deprived etc. Everyone will align completely once they croak (what we call the “death” experience), thats when you become fully aligned with everything you desire. But really, we don´t have to wait until we croak to align! You can do that now! It is just a decision for you, do you care about how you feel? Do you care more about feeling good than anything else? 

 

The emotional guidance scale

 This is the emotional guidance scale. I look at this often because it feels so good to do it! When I look at it I think – OK so where am I on this scale right now? Then: now I would like to manifest the emotion of…. and so I keep reaching for relief reaching for relief until eventually I feel joy passion love appreciation etc. again. The higher you are on the emotional scale the more allowing you are. Allowing of what? Of everything you desire to come to you! Of your wellbeing, your never ending stream of wellbeing that flows to you all day every day and you experience the fullness of your wellbeing when you feel good, when you allow.

The further down on the scale you are the more resistant you are and the less wellbeing you let in. You see, there is only a source of wellbeing, and whether you experience your full wellbeing, everything you desire or not is only ever about whether you are letting it in (allowing it in) or not. Period. That´s it.

Reach for relief from wherever you are! Look at the guidance scale! If you are in depression – reach for the freeing relief of anger, revenge or hatred! You will feel better! And your resistance is less. Then reach for the breath of fresh air that blame gives you! It feels so much better to blame than to feel guilt! Then move in to the feeling irritation, frustration and before you know it you can reach for feelings of hope, optimism. After that it gets easier and easier to find thoughts of joy, love appreciation and NOW you are truly allowing!

Now you are feeling good which is the only work you ever need to do!!!! Take the emotional journey – not the action journey. Bacause when you feel good you will be inspired from inside the vortex to what to say, what to do, what to think.

When you feel good on a consistent basis, besides from feeling really really wonderful – everything you desire will come to you too. It is law. Law of attraction.

 

How to get everything you desire

There really is only three steps to getting everything you desire:

1. Ask (And life causes you to do that all day everyday without you even knowing it as you sift through the smörgåsbord of your life seeing what you like and what you don´t like. Preferences are always born within you for what you would like and as you move through your day to day experiences rockets of desire for what you do want is born and launched all the time. You don´t even have to think of this!)

2. Answer (This is not your job and this happens instantly every time you ask for something you desire. Source hears your request and gives it to you immediately. It is done. It is already done. It has been given. Everytime you ask – it is given.)

3. Allow (This is your work, and really the only work you ever need to do. For you to receive that which you have asked for, that which you desire, you have to allow it to come to you.

What is allow? That is to hold no resistance and be in the receiving mode. How do you know if you are? You feel good. That´s it. To receive everything you desire, the money you want, the lover, the health, the beautiful body, the fulfillig job, yes everythin you desire – you have to feel good.

Which means every time you feel negative, focusing on the lack, thinking of what  isn´t here yet, focusing on reality and talking about it as it is, worrying, complaining, arguing for your limitations – you hold it off from you.

So what do you need to do? There are endless processes that you could do to release your resistance and check out the Abraham Hicks materials for lots of fun inspiration on how to do that.

Most important – don´t take yourself so seriously, don´t make such a big hairy deal out of everything, appreciate more, laugh more, have more fun, enjoy yourself more, bask more, look for positive aspects in others, look for positive aspects in you, look for the best in where you stand and never complain, never argue for your limitations – know that you are where you are and that is just fine – when you ask it is always given so just relax, allow and feel good. 

Never face reality unless you want to stay right there forever!!!

The best teachers ever, according to me, are Abraham Hicks. I so love and adore them with all of my heart and soul. They have a clear message to all who are ready to hear: you have all come here to this life for the fun of it. For the joy of it.

We expand enormously just by being here because as we look around and see the variety – from it we deside what we like and what we do not like. Everytime you see something that you do not want, a desire shoots out of you for what you would want. And as that desire shoots out of you your inner being answers it immediately. It is done! What you want is there for you, it is done and it is even better that you can imagine it.

So, if you are standing here right now in a situation which is not exactly as you would want it to be, or even far far far from what you desire it to be – what you want has already been created for you. But why arn´t you living it?

You are probably facing reality, regurgitating what is, what is, what is. Because that is what we all have been trained to do.

But you see, we all get what we think about, whether we want it or not. What you give your attention to you get more of. Regardless if you want it or not. This universe is an inclusion based universe so there really is no “no” or pushing against. Attention to brings more of. Period.

So if you like it as it is, do not change your thought. Keep looking at what is, blogging about what is, talking about what is and more of what is will come to you.

But if you would like something that feels even better you have got to realx more, have more fun, enjoy more, appreciate more, look for the best in things, look for the best in others! Tell it the way you want it to be! Fantasize more! Imagine more!

Never mind what is – it is only a temporary snap shot of what you have been vibrating and attracting so far – but you can do something about what you attract to you!

Nothing comes to you unless YOU attracted it to you. You attract everything that comes to you. No one does anything to you ever ever ever – they are just giving you exactly what you are a vibrational match to. That is wonderful to know! How empowering!

I will post so much more on this as i feel inspired to, just for the fun and pleasure of writing about this!!!! :)

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